Any answers?

Another beautiful ghazal from the ghazal maestro Jagjit Singh .... and isnt this ghazal very true.. any answers to the questions below?

Koi yeh kaise bataye ke woh tanha kyun hai?
Woh jo apna tha wohi aur kisi ka kyun hai?
Yehi duniya hai to phir aise yeh duniya kyun hai?
Yehi hota hai to akhir yehi hota kyun hai?

Ek zara haath badha de to pakad le daaman
Uske seene mein sama jaye hamare dhadkan
Itni kurbat hai to phir phasla itna kyun hai?

Dil-e-barbaad se nikla nahi ab tak koi
Ek lute ghar pe diya karta hai dastak koi
Aas jo toot gaye phir se bandhata kyun hai?

Tum musarrat ka kaho ya isse gham ka rishta
Kehte hai pyar ka rishta hai janam ka rishta
Hai janam ka jo yeh rishta to badalta kyun hai?

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