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How r u supposed to feel on ur "birthday" !!?
isnt it like any other day !!
i mean look at it , what s different ? u r the same, the day is the what is every day ...except for people wishing u "happy bday" , and u saying " "thanks".. some cake, ... ( ritualistic !!) add a few gifts ! ( anyone wud love birthdays for this part... ;) isnt it ??)
but birthdays are hyped !! and this is how u create it .. U embed a feeling that day ...that its ur BIRTHDAY , so u try to forcibly look at things differently !! and then when u see the difference, overjoyed, u say ... its my birthday !! :))
funny it sounds rite.. but isnt it so !! ?
The worst part ... u r expected to cherish another gone year of ur life, and when u look back at the year gone by.. u can only feel the loss !
The goodie side ... lots of people remembering u , u will be actually surprised by the people ...( the unexpected wishes ;) )... and the first thing u say to urself after the ritual has just ended, is " how did this guy/gal remember my bday" !! and u have that smile on ur face, anyone wud die for ... ;)
3 comments:
herez d thing,
replace birthday with ne othr day.....fathers, valentines...etc all u'r arguments will hold.....the only reason i can think of u being happy is although u r now gonna die earlier thn whn u were gonna last year...ppl are happy abt tht and give u stuff tht u can leave them when u die!!!
by any chance .. is it your birthday today ?
Ironic, you create that vicious circle of making a day special by attaching your own connotations to it and then relishing that day for those connotations.
It's all because you can feel happy, it's all because that gives others, some of whom you want if your life and some you don't, to remind you that although you don't notice but they are there for you. It's also time for your so called foes, to say truce, afftected although, that you're still the person who's good for them. And the nugget of all reasons: it makes you feel happy and special.
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